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Also she'll want to meet the guy that makes her feel the most comfortable in meeting. But I haven't seen a person yet who cannot improve his lot by working hard on improving it.For example, I love it when guys say they will meet up but no pressure on having sex the first time..meet and have drinks or whatever. Here's what I'd add to this -- the first time with a woman, it's not about you getting off. (This also applies to gay guys.) Forget you have a dick.23, m, virgin, I don't think I'm that bad looking, but if I lost a little more weight I'd be just fine in the dating world, but I haven't really had any luck. Since both are free, there's no real obligation to seek out people. I can confirm that I deal with tons of email from tons of guys.I'd prefer to lose it to someone I can feel comfortable with, but if I can't get anywhere near the end of the year I'll probably hit up a site like Fling/AFF/craigslist and just get it over with so I start feeling a little more comfortable with sex in general. Here's a tip if you want to meet a woman..persistent if she's interested. I am one of the 2 women that are real and do meet up for sex with men.She probably has about 10 guys she's thinking of meeting, but she'll want to meet the guy that wants her the most.I personally know a chick that's a regular of ladyboners and a few other sex related subreddits. You can't find happiness, you have to create it. Yeah, this is bullshit because it's advice that someone gives once they've already accomplished those things, without describing the process. Self-esteem doesn't magically come out of the ether.She's always in the subreddits trying to pick up on men, but it doesn't appear that they realize it. Normally, the reason people don't do these things is because they have some barrier to how they see the world--they don't trust people, they CAN' T put themselves out there because they're painfully shy, and the only thing worse than being how they are is giving up the only way of being that they've ever known. A lot of it involves getting in touch with yourself and others.
If you want to be the person that you want to be - do something for it. How could you if you waste your time on Reddit or with porn? And you can suffer for doing good things, if you do it wrong. The problem is that starting a new hobby, something cool like rock climbing or playing music or whatever, requires making new friends whom you've never met, and if I was good at that I wouldn't be in this mess in the first place.There's a terrible lack of positive, older men who can give life advice out there. Deal with it, accept that you have a good friend, and move on. But don't whine how cruel the girl is because she doesn't let you hump her even when you fix her computer. Instant gratification through TV and fast food and those fake achievements of games that come in exactly that interval that keeps you hooked. Clicking a button and doing fun things will rarely make you successful. Of course, even hard work doesn't guarantee anything. You can sit in front of your computer, doing your job with average results while you spend time on reddit - and you still think you deserve a raise? Women can smell a man that has confidence in himself.Frankly, my Dad passed away 10 years ago and I'd still like to ask him some things now and then. I'll do as much as I can to help it to be a good place. There is this weird mentally, especially on circlejerking places like Reddit, that somehow you deserve to have all the things you want. You wake up and don't bother to shower but still expect people to enjoy your company? I can’t prove this scientifically, but other men look up to you, and the women follow naturally. You probably can’t be obese, but you don’t have to be jacked. A witty sense of humor and an educated mind goes a long way. I'm 27, and I've been trying to get over my own issues very hard for the last year or so.And also to not spam send out the same message to a hundred girls. But if you don't like it the way there is only one option. And that's the real key to good sex -- relax the fuck up and have fun doing it. You're both flopping your naughty bits in front of each other, and both of you are pretty hot about having those naughty bits flopping around. Grab and grope and lick and suck with great abandon, and without fear or limits. Third or fourth time, you'll both hit That Moment like a Boss, and it will be followed by the most fantastic breakfast ever, and you will suddenly realize, "Holy shit.Seriously, It may seem like "work, work." to write personalised messages to people you're interested in, But each of those girls you send a copy-paste to will just think you're some crazy possibly slightly dangerous person, because when you get tonnes of messages from men daily you eventually kinda understand what's real and what is just some bullshit copy paste. Only one, and unless you accept that you will fail over and over again, you will be unhappy for all your life: If you don't like the way things are - fight with all your power to change it. I'm not a virgin and I don't feel like a total asshole having got here," and you will look across that diner table over the omelet and hash browns and smile, and you will thank me and Prolapsed Pineal and send us a silent fist bump.I'd say half of my partners, 4, have come from here and I used it for 6 months (then year break then used it about another year before stopping again)Is this for real? Your goal is to make her cum so hard that she forgets her own name.As a gay man, I can pick any random gay site, even if it's crap and small and find some penis in like, 5 clicks. The women are there for sex, act like you are too and don't beat around the bush. But you know one thing: If you never try you will always fail, every day, every hour, every second. Manage that, and she'll probably return the favor. Throw her back down and give her round two, then round three.That you deserve that awesome woman or man that you only dare to stare at from a distance. You spend your nights all at home playing video games and still you expect to be able to have interesting discussions with other people? You don't deserve good things, you work for them. I've been working on getting back into shape and taking care of myself, but I've been in good shape before and I've always made an effort, its mostly just been a matter of confidence. You talk about getting hobbies and passions, well, you can't just chose to be passionate about something.That you deserve the great body, healthy skin, perfect job, high pay, amazing holidays, the new computer or your dream fulfilled. There is no one in the universe that looks at you and says "well, you deserve to have all these things, I am going to give them to you". If you can read this you probably already had many great things thrown at you for which you didn't do a thing. The whole concept of "deserving" something, punishment or reward, is based on an ancient logic that there is somebody watching over us who can read your mind and rewards you for merely being good and punishes you for merely being bad. And you should be happy about that, because else probably you would be starving and not the Indian farmer who works 14 hours a day to feed his family and still half his children die from diarrhea and he himself with 30 from starvation. You can be one of the 1% or so lucky ones, those who get things for merely being born in the right family, or with the right looks or the incredible mental skills. I'm trying now to develop some new hobbies that are more likely to attract women, but for about 20 years my main hobby has been working on and playing with computers.Son, if you're 23 I have some words of wisdom for you. In the extreme case, talking to a professional therapist can help a bit.I'm almost old enough to be your dad and my boy and I talk pretty regularly about how the world works so I hope you don't take offense to my tone, it's meant to be helpful. Not that PUA shit, things that actually make you a better person, not a manipulative jackass. Even if your face is a mess, if you take care of yourself it tells someone else "this is a guy that takes care of himself". Now that you're a good communicator, have healthy self esteem, and have become more physically active we need to talk about your career. Polish your shoes, or at least clean your sneakers if that's your thing. In the more moderate cases, things like finding a friend/relative you trust to talk about how you feel and simple meditation can help you sort out why your relationships are the way they are.