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(Well, that and “I’m still living in my parent’s basement.”)That fear often stems from a misunderstanding of what it means to be bisexual.As Ellyn Ruthstrom, president of the Bisexual Resource Center, told the – who have a hard time wrapping their minds around dating non-monosexuals are likely falling prey to such negative misperceptions.
The sexualization stems from visualizing bisexuality not as a sexual identity on par with heterosexuality or homosexuality, but as a sex act.But bisexuality is a legitimate sexual identity, and being bisexual doesn’t mean that person is incapable of being in a committed relationship.There may be other things about your bi partner that may make them undateable. Being attracted to multiple genders allows bisexuals to be attracted to individuals for far more than just their physical appearance.Actually, according to an Australian study by the School of Health and Social Development, "women in relationships with bisexual men say their partners are better lovers and fathers than straight men." So there you go.From personal experience I can tell you why bisexual men rate better between the sheets.(That being said, if you’re one of the chosen, you must have it going on.)The distrust of bisexual people often stems from the perceived flippancy of the status.“I tried [my sexual fluidity], but I was called ‘selfish,’ ‘confused,’ and ‘doing it for attention,'” one bisexual woman told Buzz Feed.But being open to relationships with various genders or identifying as sexually fluid doesn’t mean you have no standards for commitment.”That’s the logic behind the deep-rooted misconception that bisexual people are incapable of monogamy — or that the bisexual person is actually gay or straight (they’re not), which would cause them to leave you for someone of a different gender.This fear is baseless and only causes unnecessary paranoia in the relationship.It's one of the oldest cliches in the book, that somehow having sex with a man makes you less 'manly' and less attractive to women.But actually the opposite is often true, and society is finally catching on. I've had sex with men, women and long lasting relationships with both. If I find someone entertaining or sexy I'll go for it, we'll work out what's going on in the bedroom when we get there.