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I wanted to take control of my life and smile again. As striking as this blonde-hair, blue-eyed guy was, he just wasn't stable enough for me. But OKCupid, e Harmony — none of them felt quite right for me.
After some brief small-talk (you know, the typical what-are-your-hobbies-what-are-you-looking-for chitchat), we set up a coffee date.
He'd laid all his cards on the table, and I was either in or out.
Oddly enough, he never asked if I had children and I don't remember ever bringing mine up.
Not when I was 21, and certainly not as a 51-year-old divorced parent of three.
Perhaps it was my Roman Catholic background that shaped my views on relationships and love, but I used to think the sugar-daddy-sugar baby dynamic was silly and taboo.