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At the time, I had joint custody and only saw them two weeks out of the month.
I knew they weren't ever going to meet him, so I didn't feel the need to tell him right off the bat.
Now here was something different; something I never, ever thought I would discover. But a part of me was very curious — too curious to ignore.I learned that he had two children and was separated, largely because he and his wife weren't intimate enough. He was looking for someone who was sexy, confident and stable, which he wasn't finding by dating younger women. After my past experience with the 29-year-old, I was worried that he might not be on my maturity level.But the way he spoke about his career and what he wanted out of our arrangement told me there were no nasty tricks up his sleeve.He'd laid all his cards on the table, and I was either in or out.Oddly enough, he never asked if I had children and I don't remember ever bringing mine up.Now that I think of it, he threw in an extra 0 every now and again — you know, just to be nice. It wasn't about neon-colored Camaros, colossal diamonds or nights at five-star hotel suites.He drove a high-end import car, but it wasn't fiery red.It was pretty uncomfortable at first, since he showed up wearing a suit and asked very non-personal questions about my life."Tell me a little bit more about yourself," and, "What have you learned from your past relationships? It felt more like a job interview than a date, and there were no fireworks exploding like I had hoped. Not when I was 21, and certainly not as a 51-year-old divorced parent of three.Perhaps it was my Roman Catholic background that shaped my views on relationships and love, but I used to think the sugar-daddy-sugar baby dynamic was silly and taboo.