Dating a free spirit
We are so in touch with our feelings that we never fail to empathize with others.
It's not in our nature to be judgmental, so we're easy to talk to.
I’m often labeled as a “free spirit.”At first, I wasn’t sure what this label was supposed to mean.
It seemed like such a trivial way to categorize such complex beings. But some introspecting, I realized I may have inherited this title from the woman who raised me: My mother. She was child of the 60s and 70s; she made her own clothes, dated men on her own terms, always spoke her mind and had a mess of thick, Italian-American hair, which she never wanted to tame.
A free spirit functions best when she is left to her own devices.
She works on her own timeline and plays by her own rules.
We find it difficult to focus because our heads are always in the clouds.I took her advice to heart over the years, so it’s no surprise that I ended up being a free spirit myself. Free spirits live in a world that is constantly trying to define us and curb our very essence: Whether it's our bra constricting us, or society telling us we cannot think, feel or act a certain way, when we are restricted from being who we are, we shut down. We love waking up every morning, knowing this day will be vastly different from the last.We feel spiritually claustrophobic when we're faced with days of constant similarity.Our friends snap fingers in front of our faces when we drift off mid-sentence. Our way of thinking is not a straight line, but rather a winding maze that we are trying to navigate. To the contrary, we're usually too busy being self-aware of our brains, body, emotions and actions to concentrate on our immediate surroundings.Sometimes the real world is far too harsh for free spirits. We absorb others' pain, pleasure, anxiety, contentedness, fear and courage.Instead, when she is ready, she will seek out someone who is strong enough to keep up with her. Free spirits need passion, understanding and patience from our lovers.Because our brains are moving at a million miles per minute, we only invite in those who can enrich us.It's easy for us to zone out and get trapped inside our brains.We are the people who constantly practice being in the moment because we struggle with it the most.When we experience bouts of sadness, we reach out to others for support.Just simply being around another happy person can lighten our mood because of how susceptible we are to others' feelings.