Dating a sex worker
It all started when an insecure bloke revealed that he is uncomfortable with his girlfriend's job because he thought it would make her more likely to cheat on him. We had a great and fun relationship with zero negative work-related issues.However, he did add that "the sex is great," before asking if anyone could offer some advice on the topic. “It depends totally on you and your views on sex and intimacy.Men took to Reddit to discuss what it's like to have a partner who sells her body, with some commenters put off by the idea - and others claiming that sex workers make the best girlfriends.Being in a relationship with a sex worker can create jealousy issues for some fellas, but other men claim that there's no reason why women working in the world's oldest profession are any different to be with.In April 2017, Rantsi felt that she was in a serious enough and committed relationship to disclose her profession. She finally decided to break the news, knowing that the truth has its own way of coming out.“I was prepared for shock and disappointment.” For context Rantsi told him about the struggles of her childhood leading to the circumstances that led to her becoming a sex worker.Thamae’s advice to other men is that sex workers are human beings and should be seen as human first before anything else.“They deserve the happiness that can be found in love like everyone else,” he concluded.
Sex work has long been criticised and stigmatised in our society and it has never been regarded as a serious profession.Thamae says he has loved Rantsi since the first day he met her. Because Rantsi had indicated that financial circumstances led her to sex work, they decided together to find a way to deal with their financial challenges.At the time of this interview, they were planning to get married in June of 2018.Rantsi is no longer a sex worker, she now owns a small business. He’d never dated a sex worker but for him love is love, no matter what a person does.“When I met her, I just knew she was the one,”he said, with a big smile on his face.Thamae works in the mines and contributes to her needs. When Thamae learnt how she made an income he did not try to force his girlfriend to leave her job.Rantsi was constantly harassed, humiliated and abused by clients and the general public. Initially she thought Thamae was just like other guys she had dated previously.“[The] men I have dated would not be out [in public] with me and they were mostly my clients. I have never found comfort in the arms of a man because they considered me as worthless. The following year, the relationship moved to the next level and Thamae began showing intentions of asking for Rantsi’s hand in marriage.And a further commenter said: "You need to view sex as an activity like cooking or going for a run.She applies zero importance on the act and you'll need to be able to do the same." Another Reddit user with a friend working in the sex industry also chipped in with some advice, saying: "Her being a sex worker doesn't make her more likely to cheat. "If you've ever worked customer service, you know that smiling isn't a genuine thing and that you have to do it to make the customer happy because it's your job. So much so that they would regularly come in for an opportunity to get off campus and watch the lithe Russian women bend and twirl, applauding the loudest whenever I'd take the stage. One night, my roommate surprised me by bringing a group of guys from school whom I'd never met before.I didn't know she was hoping to take one of them home - a tall, freckled boy with a chiseled jaw and piercing blue eyes - and before she could make her move, Sam and I locked eyes while I executed a pretty flawless inverted pole trick. Despite my roommate's grumblings, the next three months of my life involved seeing a lot of Sam.