Dating a sex worker
Men took to Reddit to discuss what it's like to have a partner who sells her body, with some commenters put off by the idea - and others claiming that sex workers make the best girlfriends.
Being in a relationship with a sex worker can create jealousy issues for some fellas, but other men claim that there's no reason why women working in the world's oldest profession are any different to be with.
So much so that they would regularly come in for an opportunity to get off campus and watch the lithe Russian women bend and twirl, applauding the loudest whenever I'd take the stage. One night, my roommate surprised me by bringing a group of guys from school whom I'd never met before.
I didn't know she was hoping to take one of them home - a tall, freckled boy with a chiseled jaw and piercing blue eyes - and before she could make her move, Sam and I locked eyes while I executed a pretty flawless inverted pole trick. Despite my roommate's grumblings, the next three months of my life involved seeing a lot of Sam.
IF you've ever wondered what it would be like to date a sex worker, then a group of men who do just that have answered all your questions for you.It all started when an insecure bloke revealed that he is uncomfortable with his girlfriend's job because he thought it would make her more likely to cheat on him. We had a great and fun relationship with zero negative work-related issues.However, he did add that "the sex is great," before asking if anyone could offer some advice on the topic. “It depends totally on you and your views on sex and intimacy.Thamae’s advice to other men is that sex workers are human beings and should be seen as human first before anything else.“They deserve the happiness that can be found in love like everyone else,” he concluded.She asked me once: ‘Does it bother you that I've had sex with over 2,000 men?’ He did add that men dating sex workers should make sure that their partners are safe, and doing it for the right reasons, although he added that "cheating has absolutely nothing to do with her profession.One of the most difficult things about being a sex worker is finding a romantic partner. For disadvantaged people social stigma and discrimination are often intertwined with their daily lives.Sometimes, people who date sex workers are concerned about their health and the risk of contracting infections, explains Liteboho Rantsi*.Rantsi is no longer a sex worker, she now owns a small business. He’d never dated a sex worker but for him love is love, no matter what a person does.“When I met her, I just knew she was the one,”he said, with a big smile on his face.Thamae works in the mines and contributes to her needs. When Thamae learnt how she made an income he did not try to force his girlfriend to leave her job.