Dating after sex
The adrenaline subsides, your breathing returns to normal, you’ve both been in the animalistic throes of passion – but now you’re yourselves again. Feedback is important for most things – if constructive it can guarantee you a good time, every time.Don’t be afraid to say what you liked, or would like to try next time.Virginity was a stand-in for purity and morality, a misogynistic ideal that was—and is—used to repress female sexuality.It’s why men today still aren't slut-shamed, while women often are.Tread carefully, obviously; don’t go full-on “disgruntled holidaymaker on Trip Advisor” on their ass.
Eating together afterward is a bonding experience; you can sit together mutually contented, enjoying another sensory satisfaction without having to make much effort.Yes, of course, you’re still girlfriend material If you choose to have sex on the first date, it should not have any impact on your eligibility as a partner.Plenty of couples officially get together after they've done the deed on their first date, so sexing early on shouldn't be a barrier if you’re vibing with each other, and there's mutual consent.In real life, with post-coital smoking comes many passion-killers: cigarette burns on bed linen; overflowing ashtrays on the nightstand; nicotine breath; trails of ash across your chest like the Eyjafjallajökull volcano. Keep your ideas big, the method of achievement vague and the tone aspirational.So, yes to those travel plans, small business ideas, and no to wanting to be the first man in the country to eat a burger the size of Brentford and live.I think I’d agree to marry/hand over all my passwords to/rob a bank for anyone who, straight after doing it, turned to me, waggled their mobile phone in my face and said, "Shall I order a pizza?"As euphoric as the post-coital period can be, that miserable buzzkill hormone prolactin is waiting in the wings to bring you down from that high.Keep it realistic, though; now is not the time to float the idea of trading in the children for a Maserati.What better way to replace the calories you just burned off?It’s a good way to build intimacy once it's over.An hour-long one-star-rating diatribe about how terrible it was won’t go down well – and will directly result in nobody in the vicinity going down on scientists, that is, of course.