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If they didn’t mention they were trans then that would be a problem.It seems like it would hurt a lot of trans people’s ability to date and not really effect yours.So: transgender men and women should have their own separate designations from men and women on dating sites. EDIT: As a clarification, because I seem to have given the impression that I'm somehow obscuring a lack of interest in same-sex relationships, I do not want to sleep with a biological man - which is one more reason for the filter./u/The_Josh_Of_Clubs (OP) has awarded 3 delta(s) in this post.All comments that earned deltas (from OP or other users) are listed here, in r/Delta Log.Not only that, but if I'm using a dating site it's fairly likely that I'm looking for a long-term partner that I'd consider having children with, and the fact is that transgender women cannot have children.Therefore, I should be able to filter out transgender women and (though I personally wouldn't) include transgender men.I'm not going to say it would be impossible for her to keep me around, but it'd be highly unlikely.It's not the same as someone who is transgender as I'm not okay with even casual sex in a same-sex scenario.
I'd be fine with being a FWB with someone who's sterile, but I'd want to keep myself open to meet someone who isn't.Should we create separate categories for people who have autism or learning disabilities? Besides, isn’t that kind of the premise of dating sites to begin with, that the pool is diverse?They are still around, not because failed dates / matches don’t happen, but because of the possibility of finding someone who likes you for who you are, whatever that may be.This seems somewhat analogous to a recent CMV post about people with disabilities (e.g. The OP said they felt that a person should have put that they use a wheelchair on their dating profile.The consensus in the comments though seemed to be that a person in a wheelchair shouldn’t HAVE to disclose that about themselves in their dating profile, just as there are many other things a person might not put front and center due to any number of reasons.Please note that a change of view doesn't necessarily mean a reversal, or that the conversation has ended.When they're open about it on their profile it's very easy, yes. Sometimes you can't tell though, and you waste time messaging back and forth only to find out they've got a trait that immediately disqualifies them as a partner.We can debate or disagree as to if that is wise or fair to omit that, but that is different than arguing that you are entitled to that information.You might argue that a physical disability or a person being trans are major factors for some people in terms of who they’ll date.Personally, I would encourage trans people to be up front simply for their own safety, but I don’t see why they should have to wear that info like a banner any more than someone in a wheelchair should have to put that front and center on their dating profile.Last counterpoint is, why should a trans person have to put that they are trans on their profile rather than you putting on yours that you don’t date trans people? Gender is a pretty big deal, the genders you're interested in are typically one of the first questions a dating site asks you.