No dating just sex
"With aging comes an increase in depression and irritability.
"Not everyone wants a sex life as they head into last third of life.
You have to decide, 'This is what I want, how do I proceed,'" she advises. You have to be willing to say this to your partner: "We need to jazz up our sex life. We have to set aside time for it.'" If your partner is unwilling, here's your dialogue: "We need to go for a brief round of counseling to get our priorities straight.
I'm not willing to settle for a relationship where you sit in a chair, pop a few beers, and our sex life is over." The stereotype of grumpy old men exists for a reason, Foley explains.
It may not happen all the time, but it happens often.
It's because people start to feel neglected, disappointed.