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Surely you've heard of puppy play: It's surging in popularity among the gays, and, if history is any guide, will be surging among the straights in five years when we've moved on to something else. Puppy play means role-playing as a dog, down on all fours and barking, and yes, it's weird. But I know you're not the sort of person who uses "weird" as a pejorative term, because you're reading . If you're having trouble understanding the appeal of puppy play, just imagine how amazing it would be if there were a form of group relaxation where you could empty your mind of all your cares, forget all of your responsibilities, lower all of your defenses, and bypass small talk forever. "I'd never seen that relationship outside of a bar," he said. But puppies are out there, they're always themselves, their personalities and their emotions are on their sleeves." Pups can't maintain much guile, and that honesty is a big draw for pups like Fosse and Chance, two friends I met at the mosh.
Now imagine that vigorous cuddling and praise are key components of this relaxation technique. Fosse identifies as a "therapy pup," going down on all fours to cuddle and nurture and comfort.
And while most of this sex happens between couples, some single people hook up on a cruise, too.
According to the Cruzely survey, 5.5% of those surveyed had hooked up with someone they met on a cruise.
Making friends, calming nerves, overcoming fears, understanding yourself—puppy play seems to serve a psychological function that other kinks don't always reach.
That's harder to answer, but I suspect that some pups just need a more forceful way to relax, or maybe the structure of puppy play, loose though it may be, provides permission to unwind.He swayed his arm a few times, the men in front of him following every move with their eyes—and then, with a quick flick, he tossed the ball into the middle of the crowd, provoking furious barks as they all clambered over each other, desperate to snatch the ball and return it to him, or maybe just retreat to a corner to blissfully chew on it. All a puppy has to do, he explained, is relax and switch their brain from that of a logical calculator to a reactive animal.This was the scene at the monthly mosh held by Seattle Pups and Handlers (SEA-PAH), our local puppy-play group. When he's in pup mode, he said, he has "no real inner monologue. Affectionate and loving and sharing myself." One of Amp's first encounters with pups was on a camping trip with some friends, two of whom were a puppy and his daddy. A lot of people, when they go into a relationship, they tend to hide off parts of themselves that they're embarrassed about.Forget about long walks on the beach and focus on the motion of the ocean. One poll by cruise company Royal Caribbean found that 99% of the 1,000 people surveyed said that sex was their favorite cruise activity, 62% said they had better sex at sea, and 52% were more likely to have sex on a cruise ship than on land.Sure, maybe it's just vacation sex — or maybe there's something special about a cruise.And cruise sex can get pretty kinky, even if you're not on a swinger's cruise.Another survey, this one by cruise blog Cruzely, found that 10% of those surveyed had had public sex on a cruise ship, with balconies being the most popular location.And, while there are strict rules prohibiting cruise ship staff from having sex with passengers (it will usually result in immediate firing), staff members frequently hook up with each other.Not only are sexual fantasies totally normal, but they allow us to explore our sexuality in a space that’s super safe: our imaginations."It's not having to think about work, e-mail, calendars.That's all left at the door." Other pups take a more integrated approach.