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Surely you've heard of puppy play: It's surging in popularity among the gays, and, if history is any guide, will be surging among the straights in five years when we've moved on to something else. Puppy play means role-playing as a dog, down on all fours and barking, and yes, it's weird. But I know you're not the sort of person who uses "weird" as a pejorative term, because you're reading . If you're having trouble understanding the appeal of puppy play, just imagine how amazing it would be if there were a form of group relaxation where you could empty your mind of all your cares, forget all of your responsibilities, lower all of your defenses, and bypass small talk forever. "I'd never seen that relationship outside of a bar," he said. But puppies are out there, they're always themselves, their personalities and their emotions are on their sleeves." Pups can't maintain much guile, and that honesty is a big draw for pups like Fosse and Chance, two friends I met at the mosh.Now imagine that vigorous cuddling and praise are key components of this relaxation technique. Fosse identifies as a "therapy pup," going down on all fours to cuddle and nurture and comfort.And while most of this sex happens between couples, some single people hook up on a cruise, too.According to the Cruzely survey, 5.5% of those surveyed had hooked up with someone they met on a cruise.And finally the dom looked at me and said, 'You're still thinking. Just play.'" Learning to let go, reacting to the world instead of staying in his head, and just playing helped change Tugger from a nervous shy-guy to the proud leather-poodle who turned every head at this year's IML. Phoenix Leather and is a voice for puppies of all stripes, including cuddly nuzzle pups, watchdogs who guard the group from the sidelines, playful pups who like to pounce, and wrestlers who push each other over to establish dominance.
This was the scene at the monthly mosh held by Seattle Pups and Handlers (SEA-PAH), our local puppy-play group. When he's in pup mode, he said, he has "no real inner monologue. Affectionate and loving and sharing myself." One of Amp's first encounters with pups was on a camping trip with some friends, two of whom were a puppy and his daddy. A lot of people, when they go into a relationship, they tend to hide off parts of themselves that they're embarrassed about.(Prior to this, he studied to become a pastor.) Chance's sir brought him to his first puppy mosh last Valentine's Day. "What if the other pups don't want to play with me because I'm trans? But he was welcomed into the group, and now he sets aside every Tuesday for hormone shots followed by pupping and cuddling and watching ."I was looking for something that would be fun and playful and a release," pup Tugger said."They take an hour when they get through the door, and they progress down into puppy mode.A lot of these people work in jobs where they run things," he added.ast weekend, I was hanging out at the Cuff, the leather bar at 13th and Pine, when a man to my left pulled out a pink rubber ball.He held it up in the air, and around the patio half a dozen guys suddenly dropped what they were doing and turned to stare. "The entry level is so low and nonthreatening," SEA-PAH vice president pup Amp told me.Why not just listen to Enya and squeeze a stress ball?That's harder to answer, but I suspect that some pups just need a more forceful way to relax, or maybe the structure of puppy play, loose though it may be, provides permission to unwind."There are always sheep that need their heels nipped at," he said, looking down as Chance nuzzled his shoulder.Chance's eyes were closed and he was gently yipping.