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It was a stunning show of bravado, but just a few years ago, he struggled with debilitating anxiety.
Then he met a dom who flew him out to Oklahoma for a pup vacation, and Tugger discovered that his unease melted away when he was a poodle. His first time, "I put on a hood and I was trying a little too hard.
He was a crowd favorite this year at International Mr.
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Surely you've heard of puppy play: It's surging in popularity among the gays, and, if history is any guide, will be surging among the straights in five years when we've moved on to something else. Puppy play means role-playing as a dog, down on all fours and barking, and yes, it's weird. But I know you're not the sort of person who uses "weird" as a pejorative term, because you're reading . If you're having trouble understanding the appeal of puppy play, just imagine how amazing it would be if there were a form of group relaxation where you could empty your mind of all your cares, forget all of your responsibilities, lower all of your defenses, and bypass small talk forever. "I'd never seen that relationship outside of a bar," he said. But puppies are out there, they're always themselves, their personalities and their emotions are on their sleeves." Pups can't maintain much guile, and that honesty is a big draw for pups like Fosse and Chance, two friends I met at the mosh.
Now imagine that vigorous cuddling and praise are key components of this relaxation technique. Fosse identifies as a "therapy pup," going down on all fours to cuddle and nurture and comfort.
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(Prior to this, he studied to become a pastor.) Chance's sir brought him to his first puppy mosh last Valentine's Day. "What if the other pups don't want to play with me because I'm trans? But he was welcomed into the group, and now he sets aside every Tuesday for hormone shots followed by pupping and cuddling and watching .
"I was looking for something that would be fun and playful and a release," pup Tugger said.
And finally the dom looked at me and said, 'You're still thinking. Just play.'" Learning to let go, reacting to the world instead of staying in his head, and just playing helped change Tugger from a nervous shy-guy to the proud leather-poodle who turned every head at this year's IML. Phoenix Leather and is a voice for puppies of all stripes, including cuddly nuzzle pups, watchdogs who guard the group from the sidelines, playful pups who like to pounce, and wrestlers who push each other over to establish dominance.
You're thinking about how to do this and worried about looking dumb. As for himself, he said, "I'm very proud of the fact that I'm a standard poodle." In other words, he presents as fluffy and effeminate, but he's also loyal and oriented toward stereotypically masculine endeavors like hunting (though not necessarily for animals).