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Technology puts us more in control of our own dating destiny – albeit with much less importance in everybody else’s, sadly.
We’re more worldly, more savvy and more stylish than ever, but more anxious, more prone to rejection and, if those screenshots are anything to go, worse at romantic patter than ever before.
There's already enough pressure when it comes to dating, why add more stress and think about the age thing if you really like this dude?
Lonely hearts columns, dating agencies, useless matchmaking through friends, picking someone up in a bar.
Instead of giving everyone a go with a stellar cut and paste message like “hey ur gorgeous” or “show us your [REDACTED]”, finesse your search, really look at profiles and find things either in common or of interest, as well as looks. You should be wearing a shirt, and smiling, on at least two photos that aren’t selfies.
Or a 24-year-old girl from New Jersey who happens to blog about her relationship. DON' T use childhood/pop culture references that he will never get.
If you had sex, it still doesn’t mean you can be salacious in messages from the off. The #Me Too movement has exposed what we’d known all along: men have been abusing their power in work, sexual and romantic situations since time immemorial. No need to self-flagellate, but examine your own behaviour with women. Evaporating into thin air and not contacting someone ever again sounds an easy option, but it’s also a prize dick-move. You don’t have to apologise, or even explain too much, but if you’re not into it and don’t want to see them again, confess.
It’s pretty much de rigueur to do detective work, like Instagram stalking, which can be particularly revealing.
But, seriously, if they ever do a reunion tour J is SO coming with me. Do you have any tips for dating someone older than you?
DO treat the relationship the same as you would with a guy your own age.